Think on These Things... If You’re Up for It

Welcome to the Letters of Wonder, where I explore insights on wealth, fulfillment, growth, and mastery.

Lately, I’ve been reading some Jiddu Krishnamurti (if you’re unfamiliar he’s probably like the inventor of late night deep talks).

Known for my own late-night deep talks, I decided to pick up Krishnamurti's Think on These Things.

And the book started making me think about everything.

Basically, if you want to rethink your existence, then read JK.

Or to keep it light, you can just read this newsletter.

Let’s dive in.

1) Questioning

Without constant questioning, we are unable to dig deeper into our true selves.

You must realize that we are conditioned by literally everything and anything.

From how to think to how to shit eat.

By getting to the root of our selves, we can come to true understanding.

This process requires getting uncomfortable in truths you may not want to hear.

By observing our deepest self with no judgment, we begin to see the truth.

Interestingly, this is not an analytical process.

It's a direct perception of "what is".

Example:

You work hard every day, then when you're 90 you ask, “Do I even enjoy this?”.

Turns out, you’ve been living your boss’s dream, not yours.

Now it’s too late to join the NBA. Darn.

2) Peace

It’s easy to find surface level peace with comfort.

But that’s not real peace.

Real peace is on the other side of facing hard things.

Example:

You know you need to talk to your friend about something awkward.

But hey isn’t it easier to just avoid it?

As you ignore it, the problem grows.

Then one day, it’s unbearable. You end up having to talk to them, L.

You guys talk and turns out they’re a prick.

You end up doing the unbearable. You cut them out of your life.

At first it absolutely sucks.

Then, years go by and you start to attract much more fulfilling friends around you. Friends who are actually meant to be in your life.

You found peace by going deeper than the surface.

This applies in all areas of life.

3) Reality

Instead of labeling every little thing, experience life as it is.

The minute you slap a label on it, you lose the rawness of reality.

Example:

Believe in a higher power if that works for you, but labelling everything as a sign can skew your perception of reality.

It’s up to you to find what works, but don’t label anything.

Spilled coffee isn’t karma—it’s just spilled coffee (and maybe work on your grip strength you weakling double check the lid).

4) Observing

Our thoughts condition us.

Become the observer of your thoughts as a neutral bystander.

Don't label them as good or bad, but let them pass by.

The more in tune you are with yourself as an observer, the better you'll understand the world around you.

Example:

You start overthinking and it spirals out of control like always.

Instead of freaking out, just watch your own thoughts.

After a while, they’ll lose their hold on their own.

Funny how ignoring your own brain works…sometimes.

5) Listening

We often listen with our own judgments ready to go.

Try listening with zero agenda. This builds real connections.

Example:

When a friend is talking don’t interrupt with classic “oh that reminds me”.

Instead, just listen to them talk.

You’ll start noticing things you hadn’t before.

They might even start thinking you’re a great listener and start ranting talking more.

Then… maybe you can interrupt.

6) Society

Real change starts with you.

Society is just a group of individuals.

Laws can only go so far. Real change has to come from the individual level.

When you live peacefully and honestly, others might notice and start doing the same.

This creates a collective shift.

Example:

Instead of blaming society for everything, focus on your actions.

When people see you living this way, they might think, “Hey, maybe I should give that a shot.”

7) Integrity

When we observe ourselves with no judgment, we begin to get very clear in our thinking.

Soon, our thoughts, actions and words align.

This is living with integrity.

When we live like this, we start to see ourselves connected to everything.

Suddenly, life begins to flow harmoniously.

And synchronicities randomly start showing up.

But don’t label the synchronicities. Just let them flow.

Example:

You could take credit for someone else’s idea at work because no one would know.

But you decide to give them the credit they deserve.

This builds trust and you feel good too. Later, they give you credit where you deserve it.

Things just flow harmoniously. You get what you give. But don’t expect things. Just live freely.

Oh and also… no more guilt attacks at night.

Idk if guilt attacks are actually a thing. I just made them up. You get the point.

8) The Unknown

We love the familiar because it feels so safe.

But to really grow, we need to let go of what we know and embrace the unknown.

We start by releasing our attachment to what we know.

Then we allow life to reveal itself in ways we could never have expected.

This openness is the path to true discovery and liberation.

Example:

You get an offer to move to a new city. It’s terrifying, but you end up going.

You end up discovering new people and places that completely change your life.

I should probably take my own advice on this one.

Alright that’s a wrap.

Feel free to reply directly to this email. I’d love to hear your reflections.

Thanks for reading!